Coping with grievance of pet’s death
Since animals have a short life span so it’s for obvious to go through the pain of losing your pet at one time or the other. It’s natural to be sad grieving the loss of your pet after its death. Pets are just like one of the members of the family. It’s natural to feel sorrow on the death of the one with whom you who shared an intense love bond. In this crucial time you need a strong emotional support of your friends and family.
Unfortunately, mostly aren’t able to find a relieving shoulder to lean your upon and share the grievance of your pet’s death. There are few only who will genuinely understand the depth of your devastation. Not everyone understands that your pet also shared the same bond like the one shared with the rest members. People forget that shedding tears for a living soul even if it’s a pet, isn’t defining the person as a psychic in any way.
Others may or may understand the genuine worth of your grievance. Fortunately, here are some ways which will help you in coping with grievance.
Dealing With A Pet’s Death
Do not resist crying
The non –empathetic people may make you feel that mourning on a pet’s death is just bull shit. This may make you feel ashamed to break away, crying for your pet. But simply forget these craps. Remember meaning of the word ‘bond’ doesn’t varies with the variety of the soul. It absolutely alright on your part to mourn for the loved one, be it a pet. If you airtight your emotions within you, it isn’t good in any ways. You will never be able relieve yourself of the grievance. So open up your emotions and allow them to roll away.
Dare to accept the reality
Ignoring your pain or fearing to accept the reality will block the ways to make yourself better and will turn the things hard for you. So you need to dare and face the reality and accept the things in their true form. This will make easier for you to cope up with the loss. Memorize the happy moments spent with your pet and cherish them. You may not agree but memories are great healers. The process may take time, but the end results will be positive.
Share your feelings
Though there may be many who may not understand the devastation of your feelings. But there would be the ones who may lend a sympathetic heart to understand your state genuinely. Do not hesitate to share your stuff with them. Sharing your grievance will do wonders and you’ll feel a lot better and relieved than before. So open up and speak about everything what so ever is running in your mind and heart
Do something to commemorate your pet
Cherish the memories through an act of kindness. It can be anything such as planting a tree, donating in memory of your pet to the needful, etc. Make your pet remembered for a benevolent act which may shower universal benefits. Doing anything so will give you inner satisfaction and happiness. And the good memories of your pet will be studded in minds forever.